The Glamour Of City

Guys, learning Chinese is probably difficult to some of you!

However, if you set a goal such as having a date with an attractive Chinese goal in Beijing, the motivation would be much stronger.

Note: You can read more Beijing dating tips here and where are the best places to meet them in Beijing.

For a start, we will learn how to introduce YOU to the lady:

I’m Peter : “Wo Shi Peter” (please change you name accordingly)

That’s easy, right?

Anyway, my experience tells me that it’s good to tell the Chinese girls that your Chinese is crap. And you know it’s probably true.

How do you say “Pardon me, my Chinese is crap.” in Chinese?

- “Dui bu qi, wo de pu tong hua bu hao.” – Sorry, my Chinese is no good.

- “Dui bu qi” – Sorry

- “Wo de” – My

- “Pu tong hua” – Chinese Language

- “Bu Hao” – No Good

The Chinese girls will usually reply with a smile/giggle:” It’s good!” – “Hao!“.

Please realize early that they are only patronizing you.

Well, here are some more tips to note when chatting up Chinese girls:

Dos & Don’ts’ When Talking to a Chinese Girl

Beijing Dating Tips One

Please do not stare at their boobs. I know this rule applies to all women but it’s considered extremely rude in Asian culture. A glance of a mere 2 seconds at most will do – It’s a Science for me!

Beijing Dating Tips Two

It is normal that the Chinese girls may not look at you in the eyes while talking to you. They are not being rude – Shyness is seen as a virtue amongst the Chinese girls.

Beijing Dating Tips Three

Please do not speak loudly and in a brash manner. I have seen some loud-mouthed Rednecks chatting up Chinese girls with no results! – Gentle is key to success.

Beijing Dating Tips Four

As with most girls, speak slowly and allow the girls to respond. Even if the reply is in broken English, please try not to point out their mistakes during your first encounter/ date. Why? This can be seen as you trying to embarrass them – FACE VALUE Matters in China!

Beijing Dating Tips Five

Speaking from experience, I usually compliment the Chinese girls for their spoken English, no matter how bad it may be. I guess you can see it as returning the favor to them for praising your badly spoken Chinese – Everyone loves to be complimented!

OK, I guess this should be all.

Now, continue to learn more common Chinese phrases!

Your country of origin

I’m American: “Wo Shi Mei Guo Ren”

I’m Irish: “Wo Shi Ai Er Lan Ren “

I’m English: “Wo Shi Ying Guo Ren”

I’m Australian: “Wo Shi Ao Da Li Ya Ren ”

I’m Canadian: “Wo Shi Jia Na Da Ren ”

I’m a New Zealander: “Wo Shi Xin Xi Lan Ren “

I’m Scottish: “Wo Shi Su Ge Lan Ren “

I’m Welsh: “Wo Shi Wei Er Shi Ren “

Flattery- It’s a must especially in China!

You’re very beautiful : “Ni Hen Piao Liang”. (Very: “Hen” and Beautiful: “Piao Liang”)

Beautiful eyes! – “Piao Liang Yan Jing” (Eyes: “Yan Jing”)

You’re very sexy! – “Ni Hen Xing Gan!” (Sexy: “Xing Gan”)-Used this term sparingly unless the girl is a real knockout! To some girls, the word “sexy” could be rude but I guess the Chinese gals are much more open than before especially in Beijing and Shanghai.

You’re very slim – “Ni Hen Miao Tiao” (Slim: “Miao Tiao”)

Your English is very good – “Ni De Ying Yu Hen Hao” (English: “Ying Yu”) – They love to hear this! I lie almost all the time, including my wife.

You’re very fair – “Ni Hen Bai” (literal translation – You’re very white)

Are you a model? - “Ni Shi Mo Te r?” (Model: “Mo Te r”, trust me girls love this best!)

You’re the BEST! – “Ni Zui Hao” (“Zui” means Most)

You’re the most beautiful girl – “Ni Zui Piao Liang!”

Enough of the flattery!